Fulfilling the Catholic Church's Call to Penance and Repentance

in the Modern World

The Confraternity of Penitents

"You shall love the Lord your God with your whole heart, with your whole soul, and with all your mind, (and) you shall love your neighbor as yourself."  (Jesus's words as recorded in Matthew 22:37-38)

 Penance as Vocation

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Saint Catherine of Siena

When we are whom we are called to be, we will set the world ablaze.

-- St. Catherine of Siena


Each state in life has its special duties; by fulfilling  them one may find happiness in the world as in solitude; for not all are called to separate themselves from the society of men.

--St. Nicholas of Flue


A good vocation is simply a firm and constant will in which the person who is called must serve God in the way and in the places to which almighty God has called him.

--St. Francis de Sales


 It is constancy that God wants.

-- Venerable Matt Talbot


At last I have found my vocation.  My vocation is love.

--St. Therese of Lisieux

Detail of "The Crucifixion of Christ" by Cimabue

(1268-71)

"Repent and believe the Good News!" 

Penance means conversion. The Confraternity of Penitents is a world wide private Catholic association of the faithful, completely loyal to our Pope and the Magisterium. 

Our Rule of Life has been reviewed by our bishop and recognized in these words:  "this Rule does not contain anything contrary to our faith; therefore it may be safely practiced privately by you or by anyone inclined to do so.  . . . His Excellency is appreciative of your efforts to live and promote Franciscan spirituality and especially promote the neglected practice of penance and he wishes you success" (January 30, 1998). 

 Members of the Confraternity of Penitents live this Rule in their own homes, devoted to prayer, penance, fasting, conversion, and works of mercy modeled on Jesus Christ and inspired by the lives and teachings of

St. Francis,

St. Dominic,

St. Therese,

St. Benedict,

St. Augustine,

St. Ignatius,

and all the saints, most especially Mary, the Mother of God, who lived a life of true penance (conversion) in perfect union with our Lord.

May Our Lady and all the saints intercede for all who wish to embrace a life of penance, anywhere in the world, so that the grace of God will assist them to obtain every virtue necessary for a life of holiness and surrender to the Will of God! Amen.

PRAYER OF PENITENTS
"Most High, Glorious God, enlighten the darkness of my mind, give me right faith, a firm hope and perfect charity, so that I may always and in all things act according to Your Holy Will. Amen." (Saint Francis's prayer before the San Damiano Crucifix)


MISSION OF PENITENTS
"Go and repair My House which, as you can see, is falling into ruin." (The message given to St. Francis in a voice from the San Damiano Crucifix.)


ACTION OF PENITENTS
To pray for God's specific direction in one's life so that, through humbly living our Rule of Life, each penitent may help to rebuild the house of God by bringing love of God and neighbor to his or her own corner of the world.
 

Penance AS Vocation

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"Prayer and fasting are our hope, Penance our vocation." So goes a song often sung during Lent.

The dictionary defines vocation as "a divine call to the religious life." Does God give such a divine call only to the unmarried? Is the religious life possible only to those who live in monasteries, convents, or rectories? Could penance be a vocation, not just for Lent but for always? If it so, why would anyone in his or her right mind embrace such a vocation?

To say that God can give a vocation only to those who are unmarried is to limit God and His Providence. To say that the religious life is not possible for those who live in the world is to say that following God with one's whole being is not possible for the married and for those holding down jobs in the secular world. While the popular mind may not recognize a religious vocation as being possible for those in the world, the Catholic Church certainly disagrees. From the very beginning, the Church has recognized and encouraged the laity to embrace "a divine call to the religious life." In fact, every lay person is called to live "the religious life" as a lay person. How else are we to be converted?

The question really becomes, "What sort of religious life are laity called to embrace?" The sacraments, certainly. Chastity according to one's state in life. Adherence to all ten commandments, in all their nuances. Unmeasured love for God and for all people. Finding and serving Jesus in the least of humanity. If Catholics follow what the Church teaches, they will be living a religious vocation. Their faith and behavior will sanctify whatever state of life God has called them to. They will become holy.

God has, however, called some people to live in a more radical way. It shouldn't be the individual's choice about whether or not to enter religious life or the seminary. God calls the person to do so. Those who have heard the call--who have felt God's prodding--know that their choice was about following God's choice for them. It involved their free will to say "no" to what God wanted them to do, much more than their choosing between getting a PhD in chemistry or becoming a priest or a religious.

Is it any surprise that God calls some laity to live in a more spiritually radical way? Maybe they need the discipline of a more radical life. Maybe they are to offer up their so-called fanaticism as prayers for others. Maybe they are to be examples of self-discipline and sacrifice in a world that focuses on self-fulfillment, power, and possession. Maybe they are to show what it means to put God first, others second, and themselves last instead of in the reverse order.

Penance means ongoing conversion. Those called to penance as a vocation are called to witness to the truth that they, at least, can always improve. They've never "made it" spiritually. They don't go around broadcasting what they are doing, but the way they act is broadcast enough. Lay penitents wear the "habit" of humility, patience, simplicity, service, and love, and those virtues ought to make them stand out just as much as a religious veil or a collar would. If penitent doesn't seem any different from others in behavior, he or she isn't embracing the call to penance.

The vocation to penance is a divine call. You don't choose to embrace a penitential life. God calls you to do so. Your choice is whether or not you are going to listen to Him. Why would anyone embrace a vocation to penance? Because God wants them to. To refuse is to say "no" to God. Wise people don't do that, not because they fear God's judgment but because they want to "grab all the grace" He wants to give them. The Rule God calls one to live is that person's means of grace and sanctification. It's that person's surest pathway to eternal life because God set them on that pathway to bring them to Himself. It's just not wise to tell God that you have a better plan for your sanctification than He does.

Many religious Rules of Life for the laity exist. Some focus on prayer, others on community, others on poverty, or evangelization, or sanctifying one's work or family. Each has its own particular charism. All are penitential to some degree. God calls certain people to live certain Rules of Life. Why so many Rules? Because there are so many types of people. In His great love, God made a way for everyone to follow Him more closely. What works best for one person won't work best for another. You can think of a religious Rule of Life as being similar to a suit or a dress. One size doesn't fit all bodies, and one Rule doesn't fit all temperaments. You buy the clothes that fit you, and you look for and embrace a Rule that fits you, too.

The Rule for the Confraternity of Penitents focuses on penance, that is, personal conversion, with the intention that the penitent will then embrace whatever else God is calling him or her to--be it deeper prayer, fostering a more wholesome community, practicing greater poverty, evangelizing, and/or bringing God in a new way into the workplace or family. To live the Rule for the Confraternity of Penitents is to say "yes" to God's divine call. It is to say, "I agree to be continually converted by You, my God, to follow You wherever You lead and to do whatever You tell me. I'm not going to make any plans or have any ideas about what You want next year of me. I am available for whatever it is, whenever it is, wherever it is, however it is. I am totally Yours."

A person can embrace this attitude without living the CFP Rule. But living the Rule makes it easier to stick to such an attitude because the Rule reminds you every day that you are to be converted. A vocation is for always. God does not give a divine call to live a religious life and then rescind that call five years later. It is true that many people enter religious life and then leave. The reasons for their departure are many. Perhaps they were not really called. Maybe God wanted them to embrace the Rule for a time because they were to grown spiritually through it, but He then intended them to leave. But everyone is called to a religious vocation of some sort. The question is not if but how.

How will you know if penance is your vocation? Chances are, you won't know unless you begin to embrace it. Embracing it will teach you this, at least. That you do have a religious vocation. It may be to live the CFP Rule. It may be to live another Rule. It may be to live "your own rule," that is, to live a faithful, converted life in your own home as you believe, through prayer, is best for you. The important point is to pray about your vocation and then "do whatever God tells you." He does have a plan for your life. Only when you embrace it will you be happy. Be certain that, no matter who you are, you do have a religious vocation. May God show you its exact nature!

Madeline Pecora Nugent
 

 

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