Personal Vocation TO A LIFE OF PENANCE
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Your Personal
Vocation
"Vocation
means thinking of one's whole life as a
response." (Pope John Paul II)
Each person has a "personal vocation." That
includes you!
Germain Grisez, professor of Christian ethics at
Mount St. Mary's College and Seminary, has
co-authored a new book, "Personal Vocation: God
Calls Everyone by Name" (Our Sunday Visitor,
2003). In an interview with Zenit (2 October
2003, Feast of the Guardian Angels), Grisez
defines personal vocation this way:
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"We define personal vocation as God's call and
plan for one's entire life. Ephesians 2:10 says:
'We are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus
for good works, which God prepared beforehand,
that we should walk in them.' Personal vocation
is unique for each one, and it includes
absolutely everything -- all the good choices
God would prefer one to make, all the things he
allows to come one's way and expects will be
handled rightly.
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"Finding, accepting and faithfully fulfilling
one's personal vocation is the way to respond to
the universal call to holiness, for that means
doing God's will in everything and accepting
whatever comes as coming from, or at least
permitted by, him, as described in Vatican II's
dogmatic constitution on the Church ['Lumen
Gentium'] in Nos. 40-41. "
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"Since God has a particular, personal plan for
everyone's life, he wants everyone to find out
what the plan is. The process by which that is
done is called discernment.
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"It is not something mysterious nor is it
something reserved only for an elite group
consisting of those who think they may be called
to the clerical or religious state. Everyone
needs to discern what God wants of him or her.
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"Discernment involves prayer, serious
reflection, consultation with good spiritual
advisers and levelheaded friends. Taking part in
a retreat or something similar can be helpful.
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"The central question is not 'What do I want out
of life?' but 'What is God's plan for my life?
Lord, what do you want of me?' People who
approach discernment that way can be confident
that God will answer their question. "
DISCERNING A
VOCATION TO PENANCE
"Lord, what do You want of me?" is the question
St. Francis asked before the Crucifix of San
Damiano. It is the perfect question to ask in
discerning your personal vocation. Only in
fulfilling your personal vocation will you
become all who God created you to be.
How do you know if God is calling you to a life
of penance (conversion)?
Ask yourself these questions:
+ Do I desire to give myself totally to God?
+ Will I allow God to do with me whatever He
wills?
+ Do I want to help others?
+ Do I recognize that the values and possessions
of this world are fleeting?
+ Do I recognize that the teachings of Christ are the
means to joy and union with God?
+ Am I willing to voluntarily relinquish my
worldly desires for the good of my soul and the souls
of others?
+ Am I willing to offer my sacrifices, trials,
and sufferings to God in reparation for my sins
and those of others?
+ Do I trust God enough to let Him use my
penances as He sees fit?
+ Am I willing to transformed into an instrument
of love for God and neighbor?
+ Am I docile enough to forgive my enemies, to
pray for them, and to wish them well?
+ Do I repay evil with good?
+ Am I willing to renounce sin in my life and to
follow the Ten Commandments, the teachings of
Christ, and the doctrines of the Catholic Church?
+ Do I see penance as a positive good that will
bring me spiritual joy and great freedom?
+ Am I willing to obtain and be obedient to a
spiritual director who will assist me on the
path of holiness?
+ Am I
basically a happy person?
+ Do I
understand that a life of penance is not a life of
denial but a life of exchange of worldly things for
spiritual ones?
+ Can I be
flexible in my prayer time and duties?
+ Do I try
to put myself into the shoes of others so that I may
understand them better?
+ Do I
strive to live moment to moment trusting God, and
loving Him and neighbor?
+ Do I
understand that any good I do is by the grace of
God?
If you can answer
"yes" to the above questions, or want to, you may
have a vocation as a penitent, that is a person who
moment to moment strives to embrace conversion for
the love of God and of others.
God has led you to these pages for a reason, for
all things work together in His plan for our
lives. Pray about what you find here and ask God
what He wishes for you. Then "Do whatever He
tells you."
ADDITIONAL HELPS
Please contact us if you would like us to pray
for you as you discern a possible call to
embracing the life of a joyful, modern penitent.
We will add your name to our prayer list and
pray for you daily, by name.
If
you inform us of the state (in the USA) or
nation in which you reside, we can also put you
in touch with your Regional Minister who will assist you during your
discernment process.
May God lead you into His perfect Will for your
life, whether it be living this Rule of Life or
in another way, and may you follow Him always
until you live with Him forever!
Madeline Pecora Nugent

Confraternity of Penitents
520 Oliphant Lane
Middletown RI USA
02842-4600
401/849-5421
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